by Darlene Charles
Why is it that females always have a bucket list of who their perfect guy is? I want someone who’s over 6 feet tall, makes over $100,000 a year, weighs 195lbs… the list goes on.
Face it: You can’t build your ideal man. But yet, females think the man they are in a relationship with is not the perfect guy. Just know that your ideal man is not realistic. Beggars can’t be choosers.
Some people are painting that picture to the T, building him up like he’s a robot. You can’t create a man that you are in full control of. You can’t design your ideal man to produce the personal and physical qualities that you are looking for.
Mabelle Sese says it best. She states,
‘When I was a teenager, I had this stringent list of what my ideal man should be: handsome, well-off, caring, understanding, God-fearing, intelligent – ‘ I could have gone on and on then about what qualities my partner should have. However, as I grew older, I realized that I could never really find a real person who met all these sterling qualities.
I mean, it’s good for a woman to know what she wants in a man., but when that list gets to hefty, all those things are superficial and not based on love.
What we really should be looking for is a friendship, the true qualities in a person., their likes and dislikes…those kinds of things. How tall a person is should not matter.
The point is females want so much but the reality is they need to expect the unexpected and accept what is placed in front of them.